(1)Gujarati Dating
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(2)Jain Matrimony
We all have been at the dating game at one point in our lives. If you are at the stage where you are looking for your partner, you must be relying on friends and family to provide you with contacts of other suitable seekers. This site does not really go far beyond this method of meeting, within the community it’s generally quite easy to find out about a persons background and family history, especially if they have an east African connection. This site allows you to meet others, however one still needs to be cautious when meeting strangers, so do check your safety before meeting others.The internet has brought about a cultural change; previously people might have used advertising media like the local paper or a magazine. By using the internet we are getting targeted people looking to fulfil their particular desire. By adding your profile to this website you not doing anything to be ashamed of, all you are doing is increasing your chances to meet more open minded people.
We understand the difficulties Gujarati Oshwals face when trying to find their ideal life partner, these pressures range from finding a suitable dating partner to someone that can be accommodated by the family.This site shall allow you to meet other Gujarati's through an easy dating experience without any commitment and no one to answer too....This site is built for Gujarati singles; these wanya's live in the UK and generally have East African Roots. Some were born in Kenya, Tanzania or Uganda, whilst others had parents or grand parents born in those regions.We are not against other cultures, but as you may be aware there are hundreds of other dating websites to help them... This website is built for the asian community and shall help young and old Hindu; find their loving and caring future husband or wife.So what are some of the more unique issues that us Indians face when looking for a life partner?Well, one would guess that they would be different for various individuals, but generally we are trying to find a partner that can fit into our extended family environment. Some of us are trying to look for a partner that is financially stable and can mix with our unique culture and values.Traditionally we use to have elders that would help with this sort of matchmaking, modern times have changed, and the internet provides us with a similar sort of service. By having the ability to meet more people the chances of finding your life partner are much higher, the internet facilitates this meeting place in a very powerful way.There are many matrimonial sites on the internet, so what make this site special. Well first of all membership is free of charge, the site is targeted to a select community, and thus it’s easier to find the partner that one is looking for. We provide free chat facilities and easy email messaging and profile searching. Other Jain matrimony services are around but they charge for all these services
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Sunday, February 15, 2009
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(1)Find your dream match through free online matrimonial services. Listed here are photo profiles of members from all across India & NRIs abroad each seeking a suitable match and who would be interested to meet and introduce themselves to you. We invite you to register for free and join thousands of prospective brides and grooms who have found love and marriage through online matrimonial sites
(2)The M.I.L. MATCHMAKER Magazine has become a forum for those individuals of any background to insert their matrimonial listings in a confidential way. Bharat Raithatha, Business editor of M.I.L. points out -"there is a wide growing problem today in the Asian community of finding the right partner due to many factors -the traditional methods of introducing a prospective partner is declining due to social pressures and in modern times, sometimes a newer approach is necessary
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Shubhphere is a free matrimonial site for all gujaratis only all over the world through which we will easy your problem of marriage.
This is not a Commercial Site. There is no charge for of any kind for registring your profile in our site. If you register your
(4)1RupeeMatrimony.com is a very special website, specially designed to assist Indians, Pakistanis and Srilankans in a very noble mission, finding their better half! Incepted in July 2007, it is aimed to help thousands of singles every year to find the life partner of their choice within the shortest time possible and thus enable them to lead a happy married life and for us to emerge us the one of the unblemished matrimonial service provider in the Asian Region. Membership of 1RupeeMatrimony.com has been increasing phenomenally day by day with thousands of members coming into its fold. 1RupeeMatrimony.com Network is aimed to make on line match making an easy, cost-saving, time-saving and pleasurable experience. Amidst innumerable on-line matrimonial sites, 1RupeeMatrimony.com is emerging as a leading, safe and secure Matrimonial site with commendable success.
1RupeeMatrimony.com is committed to provide a safe and dedicated Matrimonial service conforming to the tenets of Indian / Pakistani and Srilankan values. The unblemished track-record of 1RupeeMatrimony.com, its hall-mark of genuineness, safety, reliability and its unmatched success results is recognized vastly. In the present day world of hectic activities full of nervousness and hurry, one has hardly any time and energy to seek a life partner in the conventional way of finding a partner through the help of extended family circles and friends or through genuine brokers. They invariably believe it is easy to turn to matrimonial columns in papers and websites. Harnessing the latest technological advances in the IT industry, 1RupeeMatrimony.com has provided a number of sophisticated user friendly facilities in making the search process the easiest, time saving, more choices to choose suitable life partner and trust-worthy procedure for the singles
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ShubhBarat is a free gujarati matrimonial website provides listing of gujarati brides/girls/female and grooms/boys/female shubhbarat.com provides list of gujarati brides and grooms with pictures/photo. Here we have main focus on citizens searching for gujarati matrimonials in India, USA, UK, Germany and Canada. This indian marriage/wedding site offers free gujarati matrimonial marriage matchmaking service, which helps in finding a potential match(brides or grooms) for you.
We provide the largest platform for gujarati brides and grooms from all over the world to find their suitable life partners and tried our level best to keep this service totally free. Register yourself at our gujarati matrimonial site and find your dream match with pictures/photos
(2)The M.I.L. MATCHMAKER Magazine has become a forum for those individuals of any background to insert their matrimonial listings in a confidential way. Bharat Raithatha, Business editor of M.I.L. points out -"there is a wide growing problem today in the Asian community of finding the right partner due to many factors -the traditional methods of introducing a prospective partner is declining due to social pressures and in modern times, sometimes a newer approach is necessary
(3)
Shubhphere is a free matrimonial site for all gujaratis only all over the world through which we will easy your problem of marriage.
This is not a Commercial Site. There is no charge for of any kind for registring your profile in our site. If you register your
(4)1RupeeMatrimony.com is a very special website, specially designed to assist Indians, Pakistanis and Srilankans in a very noble mission, finding their better half! Incepted in July 2007, it is aimed to help thousands of singles every year to find the life partner of their choice within the shortest time possible and thus enable them to lead a happy married life and for us to emerge us the one of the unblemished matrimonial service provider in the Asian Region. Membership of 1RupeeMatrimony.com has been increasing phenomenally day by day with thousands of members coming into its fold. 1RupeeMatrimony.com Network is aimed to make on line match making an easy, cost-saving, time-saving and pleasurable experience. Amidst innumerable on-line matrimonial sites, 1RupeeMatrimony.com is emerging as a leading, safe and secure Matrimonial site with commendable success.
1RupeeMatrimony.com is committed to provide a safe and dedicated Matrimonial service conforming to the tenets of Indian / Pakistani and Srilankan values. The unblemished track-record of 1RupeeMatrimony.com, its hall-mark of genuineness, safety, reliability and its unmatched success results is recognized vastly. In the present day world of hectic activities full of nervousness and hurry, one has hardly any time and energy to seek a life partner in the conventional way of finding a partner through the help of extended family circles and friends or through genuine brokers. They invariably believe it is easy to turn to matrimonial columns in papers and websites. Harnessing the latest technological advances in the IT industry, 1RupeeMatrimony.com has provided a number of sophisticated user friendly facilities in making the search process the easiest, time saving, more choices to choose suitable life partner and trust-worthy procedure for the singles
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ShubhBarat is a free gujarati matrimonial website provides listing of gujarati brides/girls/female and grooms/boys/female shubhbarat.com provides list of gujarati brides and grooms with pictures/photo. Here we have main focus on citizens searching for gujarati matrimonials in India, USA, UK, Germany and Canada. This indian marriage/wedding site offers free gujarati matrimonial marriage matchmaking service, which helps in finding a potential match(brides or grooms) for you.
We provide the largest platform for gujarati brides and grooms from all over the world to find their suitable life partners and tried our level best to keep this service totally free. Register yourself at our gujarati matrimonial site and find your dream match with pictures/photos
GUJARATI MATRIMONIAL SITES
(1)Welcome! Gujarati Matrimonial Site.
Welcome to MatriSearch.Com, the best Gujarati Matrimonial site. Browse our comprehensive listing of Gujarati matrimonial profiles.
(2)Shaadi.com
Gujarati MatrimonialsThe No.1 Gujarati MatrimonialSite
(3)BharatMatrimony.com is celebrated as the Most Trusted Matrimony Brand combining tradition and technology. A network of 15 regional portals and over 1.5 Crore members, BharatMatrimony has found a place in the Limca Book of Records for facilitating a record number of marriages. BharatMatrimony has been recognised as the Best Matrimony Website 2007 by PC WORLD for technology and performance and is also listed in the NASSCOM's Top 100 IT Innovators. All the awards we have won have encouraged us and we stand as the most preferred site for matrimonial search according to a study by JuxtConsult.
(4)Gujaratimatch.com, the world's oldest and most successful matrimonial service, has been trusted since 2005 by Guajaratis living all over the world to help them find their soulmates. Today, hundreds of thousands of people have met their life partners through our revolutionary matchmaking service and countless others have made some very special friends.Gujaratimatch.com was founded by me in 2005 with one simple objective - to provide us Indians with a superior matchmaking experience by expanding the opportunities available to meet potential life partners. Since then we have created a world renowned service that has touched the lives of millions of people all over the world. We have, however, never rested on our laurels.'Team Gujaratimatch.com' is a set of hardworking people, with a mission, and a promise. 'Team Gujaratimatch.com' is dedicated to providing you with the ultimate partner search experience and believes that no other matrimonial service can provide you with the value that Gujaratimatch.com can. So much so, that our service is backed by an unconditional guarantee.Please take some time to get to know us better through the links that we have provided on this page. Perhaps the information will help you decide if we are the right solution for you or somebody you know.I thank you for visiting us and hope that we can help you meet the right person.
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SoniMatrimony.com is the venture of NILSON SOLUTION makers of Khazano.com, providing matrimonial services to SONI community to find perfect and appropriate life partner from any corner of the world. Also trying to become largetst community on the internet for Matrimonial services for any perticular community.SoniMatrimony.com started on 7th July, 2004 with the aim to provide best matrimonial services to the community with the use of latest technology. Site invites any Male or Female single (adult), searching a perfect and appropriate life partner. Site try to complete all the needs of the current scenario and give result through best Advance search, which gives your perfect and appropriate life partner. Site will in plan to host millions of profiles and visitor in very short period of time.SoniMatrimony.com have strong team, which is always in search of a facilty for our valued customer and visitor. They are constantly improving the site facilty to seach a ideal life partner.SoniMatrimony.com will take part in Samuh Lagna, Parichay Mela, Exhibitions, Fairs etc.. related to SONI community.
Future Plans
SoniMatrimony.com is in planning to launch a Magazine or a Book for matrimonial services in near future. Our all the members will be listed in. Also company published articles about marriages, bride, groom and related to matrimonial services. Also display classifieds. Company also involve few good and well known persons from SONI community who are in this field since long time.Company's is aim to provide best matrimonial services among all, and want to stand First in unique Line.Company needs your support to complete its goal.
Welcome to MatriSearch.Com, the best Gujarati Matrimonial site. Browse our comprehensive listing of Gujarati matrimonial profiles.
(2)Shaadi.com
Gujarati MatrimonialsThe No.1 Gujarati MatrimonialSite
(3)BharatMatrimony.com is celebrated as the Most Trusted Matrimony Brand combining tradition and technology. A network of 15 regional portals and over 1.5 Crore members, BharatMatrimony has found a place in the Limca Book of Records for facilitating a record number of marriages. BharatMatrimony has been recognised as the Best Matrimony Website 2007 by PC WORLD for technology and performance and is also listed in the NASSCOM's Top 100 IT Innovators. All the awards we have won have encouraged us and we stand as the most preferred site for matrimonial search according to a study by JuxtConsult.
(4)Gujaratimatch.com, the world's oldest and most successful matrimonial service, has been trusted since 2005 by Guajaratis living all over the world to help them find their soulmates. Today, hundreds of thousands of people have met their life partners through our revolutionary matchmaking service and countless others have made some very special friends.Gujaratimatch.com was founded by me in 2005 with one simple objective - to provide us Indians with a superior matchmaking experience by expanding the opportunities available to meet potential life partners. Since then we have created a world renowned service that has touched the lives of millions of people all over the world. We have, however, never rested on our laurels.'Team Gujaratimatch.com' is a set of hardworking people, with a mission, and a promise. 'Team Gujaratimatch.com' is dedicated to providing you with the ultimate partner search experience and believes that no other matrimonial service can provide you with the value that Gujaratimatch.com can. So much so, that our service is backed by an unconditional guarantee.Please take some time to get to know us better through the links that we have provided on this page. Perhaps the information will help you decide if we are the right solution for you or somebody you know.I thank you for visiting us and hope that we can help you meet the right person.
(5)
SoniMatrimony.com is the venture of NILSON SOLUTION makers of Khazano.com, providing matrimonial services to SONI community to find perfect and appropriate life partner from any corner of the world. Also trying to become largetst community on the internet for Matrimonial services for any perticular community.SoniMatrimony.com started on 7th July, 2004 with the aim to provide best matrimonial services to the community with the use of latest technology. Site invites any Male or Female single (adult), searching a perfect and appropriate life partner. Site try to complete all the needs of the current scenario and give result through best Advance search, which gives your perfect and appropriate life partner. Site will in plan to host millions of profiles and visitor in very short period of time.SoniMatrimony.com have strong team, which is always in search of a facilty for our valued customer and visitor. They are constantly improving the site facilty to seach a ideal life partner.SoniMatrimony.com will take part in Samuh Lagna, Parichay Mela, Exhibitions, Fairs etc.. related to SONI community.
Future Plans
SoniMatrimony.com is in planning to launch a Magazine or a Book for matrimonial services in near future. Our all the members will be listed in. Also company published articles about marriages, bride, groom and related to matrimonial services. Also display classifieds. Company also involve few good and well known persons from SONI community who are in this field since long time.Company's is aim to provide best matrimonial services among all, and want to stand First in unique Line.Company needs your support to complete its goal.
Saturday, May 3, 2008
First Date Ideas
When thinking of ideas for a a first date I like to try new things. Rather than cater to what either one of us enjoys I try to find something completely new. This is my way of starting off the relationship with a bang and some excitement. Dinner and a movie has been done to death and so have trips to bars and clubs. Give a few of these ideas a shot and you will be pleasantly surprised.
SkydivingI haven’t tried this out for a first date idea yet but it seems like it would really be great (provided neither of you are afraid of heights). It’s exhilarating and standing together at the door of a plane about to jump out at several thousand feet has a romantic appeal that not many other things can match. Call your local municipal airport to see if they have any skydiving instructors.
Hookah CafesIf you’re not one of the enlightened who enjoys middle eastern food and hookah then you should definitely give it a try. It might not be a good option for the health conscious but for the rest of us it makes an excellent first date. Hookah cafes are usually bustling places with a laid back and cozy atmosphere and is a great place to smoke a hookah, enjoy some coffee and have a nice conversation. This works especially well for college students as there are usually many cafes nearby.
Art Conventions/GalleriesOne of my favorite places to have a first date is at the monthly art walk they have here through the downtown area. Artists and vendors get together and line the streets. Musicians play their music for you as you walk around and take in the artwork. It works wonders for anyone who can appreciate art.
Live ComedyAnother astounding option for first dates are local comedy clubs. There are a handful of really excellent ones in my area featuring both professional and amateur local comedy acts. This is a great way to break the ice; with some laughs.
Wine Tasting/ToursIf you live somewhere close to vineyards taking a tour or going to a wine tasting make excellent first dates (as long as you’re 21+). A few good wines and good conversation tucked away on a vineyard seems peaceful to me and has worked wonders for me in the past.
Scuba DivingIf you are fortunate enough to live near the beach snorkeling or scuba diving make great date activities. Follow a romp in the ocean with a nice seaside dinner and you have the makings of romance.
Poetry Readings/Book SigningsPoetry readings make great first dates and if you’re the adventurous type you can even whip up a peace to read your date at the reading. Talk about a way to score some points! Book signings are also great even if you’re not really into books. You can enjoy coffee and conversation with your date and often enjoy a dramatic reading from the authorFirst Date Ideas
When thinking of ideas for a a first date I like to try new things. Rather than cater to what either one of us enjoys I try to find something completely new. This is my way of starting off the relationship with a bang and some excitement. Dinner and a movie has been done to death and so have trips to bars and clubs. Give a few of these ideas a shot and you will be pleasantly surprised.
SkydivingI haven’t tried this out for a first date idea yet but it seems like it would really be great (provided neither of you are afraid of heights). It’s exhilarating and standing together at the door of a plane about to jump out at several thousand feet has a romantic appeal that not many other things can match. Call your local municipal airport to see if they have any skydiving instructors.
Hookah CafesIf you’re not one of the enlightened who enjoys middle eastern food and hookah then you should definitely give it a try. It might not be a good option for the health conscious but for the rest of us it makes an excellent first date. Hookah cafes are usually bustling places with a laid back and cozy atmosphere and is a great place to smoke a hookah, enjoy some coffee and have a nice conversation. This works especially well for college students as there are usually many cafes nearby.
Art Conventions/GalleriesOne of my favorite places to have a first date is at the monthly art walk they have here through the downtown area. Artists and vendors get together and line the streets. Musicians play their music for you as you walk around and take in the artwork. It works wonders for anyone who can appreciate art.
Live ComedyAnother astounding option for first dates are local comedy clubs. There are a handful of really excellent ones in my area featuring both professional and amateur local comedy acts. This is a great way to break the ice; with some laughs.
Wine Tasting/ToursIf you live somewhere close to vineyards taking a tour or going to a wine tasting make excellent first dates (as long as you’re 21+). A few good wines and good conversation tucked away on a vineyard seems peaceful to me and has worked wonders for me in the past.
Scuba DivingIf you are fortunate enough to live near the beach snorkeling or scuba diving make great date activities. Follow a romp in the ocean with a nice seaside dinner and you have the makings of romance.
Poetry Readings/Book SigningsPoetry readings make great first dates and if you’re the adventurous type you can even whip up a peace to read your date at the reading. Talk about a way to score some points! Book signings are also great even if you’re not really into books. You can enjoy coffee and conversation with your date and often enjoy a dramatic reading from the author.
SkydivingI haven’t tried this out for a first date idea yet but it seems like it would really be great (provided neither of you are afraid of heights). It’s exhilarating and standing together at the door of a plane about to jump out at several thousand feet has a romantic appeal that not many other things can match. Call your local municipal airport to see if they have any skydiving instructors.
Hookah CafesIf you’re not one of the enlightened who enjoys middle eastern food and hookah then you should definitely give it a try. It might not be a good option for the health conscious but for the rest of us it makes an excellent first date. Hookah cafes are usually bustling places with a laid back and cozy atmosphere and is a great place to smoke a hookah, enjoy some coffee and have a nice conversation. This works especially well for college students as there are usually many cafes nearby.
Art Conventions/GalleriesOne of my favorite places to have a first date is at the monthly art walk they have here through the downtown area. Artists and vendors get together and line the streets. Musicians play their music for you as you walk around and take in the artwork. It works wonders for anyone who can appreciate art.
Live ComedyAnother astounding option for first dates are local comedy clubs. There are a handful of really excellent ones in my area featuring both professional and amateur local comedy acts. This is a great way to break the ice; with some laughs.
Wine Tasting/ToursIf you live somewhere close to vineyards taking a tour or going to a wine tasting make excellent first dates (as long as you’re 21+). A few good wines and good conversation tucked away on a vineyard seems peaceful to me and has worked wonders for me in the past.
Scuba DivingIf you are fortunate enough to live near the beach snorkeling or scuba diving make great date activities. Follow a romp in the ocean with a nice seaside dinner and you have the makings of romance.
Poetry Readings/Book SigningsPoetry readings make great first dates and if you’re the adventurous type you can even whip up a peace to read your date at the reading. Talk about a way to score some points! Book signings are also great even if you’re not really into books. You can enjoy coffee and conversation with your date and often enjoy a dramatic reading from the authorFirst Date Ideas
When thinking of ideas for a a first date I like to try new things. Rather than cater to what either one of us enjoys I try to find something completely new. This is my way of starting off the relationship with a bang and some excitement. Dinner and a movie has been done to death and so have trips to bars and clubs. Give a few of these ideas a shot and you will be pleasantly surprised.
SkydivingI haven’t tried this out for a first date idea yet but it seems like it would really be great (provided neither of you are afraid of heights). It’s exhilarating and standing together at the door of a plane about to jump out at several thousand feet has a romantic appeal that not many other things can match. Call your local municipal airport to see if they have any skydiving instructors.
Hookah CafesIf you’re not one of the enlightened who enjoys middle eastern food and hookah then you should definitely give it a try. It might not be a good option for the health conscious but for the rest of us it makes an excellent first date. Hookah cafes are usually bustling places with a laid back and cozy atmosphere and is a great place to smoke a hookah, enjoy some coffee and have a nice conversation. This works especially well for college students as there are usually many cafes nearby.
Art Conventions/GalleriesOne of my favorite places to have a first date is at the monthly art walk they have here through the downtown area. Artists and vendors get together and line the streets. Musicians play their music for you as you walk around and take in the artwork. It works wonders for anyone who can appreciate art.
Live ComedyAnother astounding option for first dates are local comedy clubs. There are a handful of really excellent ones in my area featuring both professional and amateur local comedy acts. This is a great way to break the ice; with some laughs.
Wine Tasting/ToursIf you live somewhere close to vineyards taking a tour or going to a wine tasting make excellent first dates (as long as you’re 21+). A few good wines and good conversation tucked away on a vineyard seems peaceful to me and has worked wonders for me in the past.
Scuba DivingIf you are fortunate enough to live near the beach snorkeling or scuba diving make great date activities. Follow a romp in the ocean with a nice seaside dinner and you have the makings of romance.
Poetry Readings/Book SigningsPoetry readings make great first dates and if you’re the adventurous type you can even whip up a peace to read your date at the reading. Talk about a way to score some points! Book signings are also great even if you’re not really into books. You can enjoy coffee and conversation with your date and often enjoy a dramatic reading from the author.
Friday, May 2, 2008
Internet Friendships
You’ll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, several powerful features, which allow you to narrow your search so that you are able to find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, new features to make your time a successful and fun experience.
Mingle in a chat room, post an article or poem, get advice from other members, and much more!
You can chat, send instant messages, and browse through our worldwide database of profiles. You also have access to our interactive Magazine, where you can post or answer advice questions or post poetry and articles.
You can view photos and profiles of your friends, and see how you’re connected to friends of friends.
Sophisticated software search for your perfect match according to your high standards.
Sharpen your dating skills with our FREE Relationship Workshop.
Open 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. You can have a social life that fits your schedule.
Your information is completely confidential - you can check out your potential friends anonymously
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How To Make Friends For Life — Three Steps Towards Friendship
Friendship and friends continue to remain central to our lives. The relationship that we share with our friends is grounded in a mutual concern as our friends help us in shaping up our personalities as well. Even in this age of online social networking and ecards, the need of expanding the network of friends, whether online or offline remains a primary concern for people. We may have a very vague understanding of what makes a friend but we all want to have a good many number of friends around us. Research has shown that the quality and nature of your friends are one of the key influencing factors in achieving happiness, self esteem, and satisfaction. Friends often affect the health and energy of a person as well. More and more people are increasingly turning towards their friends for support and mutual sharing rather than communicating to their relatives; and this sociological phenomenon has escalated the desire to make more friends. Though friendship is an impulsive relationship developed between two autonomous individuals marked by a voluntary, emotional and mutual concern, but there are certain steps, which, if implemented can win you friends or at least help you get close to those whom you want to make your friends.
The first step to make friends with someone is to make them like you. If they don’t like you in the first place, it is unlikely that they’ll be eager to become your friends. To let someone know that you are genuinely interested in them, simple gestures like a little smile and calling him by his name can lay the basic foundation. To make the other person feel important you need to be a good listener and encourage the other person to talk. Give your honest and sincere opinion but do not overtly criticize or make fun of him or her.
The second step of making someone your friend is to develop a mutual consideration between each other. You need to share his or her perspective and for that it is necessary for you to develop an inclination to see things from the other person’s point of view. To become best of friends you must show a genuine concern and consideration for your friend’s desires and opinions.
The third and final step towards friendship is to show your unconditional support and encouragement towards your friend. Moreover, you also need to be very clear about your expectations from your friend. If what you expect from the person you want to befriend, matches with what that person can and want to contribute in friendship, the developing friendship between you and your friend is assured to flourish, making both of you gratified with mutual emotional bonding.
Friendship has overwhelming significance on both social and individual level. Friendship doesn’t only provide us with emotional as well as utilitarian support but it also helps us to improve our personal identities. So it is quite natural to feel the urge to reach out and make new friends, expanding your friend’s circle. Using the internet and the associated services like free friendship ecards come as a natural extension to this escalating aspiration. Friendship remains familiar yet quite ambiguous for our deeper understanding of this elusive relationship but then again, friends remain the most important ingredients in the recipe of life!
Tips For Better Love Making
you're floundering in the bedroom and your girlfriend is moaning for all the wrong reasons, these tips will point you in the right direction.
Gentlemen! If you want to get your girl moaning for real instead of faking it, you're going to have to put a bit of work in. Firstly, a male can achieve orgasm within 2 - 3 minutes when stimulated by another partner. Where as a female can take up to 15 minutes to climax.
If you know for a fact that you can't keep going for that long by pure intercourse alone (and lets face it, if you're doing that, you're having sex, not making love) then you are going to have to stimulate her body with foreplay instead.
Now before you panic and freak out, all of this can be done with your tongue and hands. I guarantee you will become a better lover in the bedroom AND you really will give her orgasm after orgasm.
The top 5 female erogenous zones
The neck
Apart from being sexy and attractive, the female neck is perhaps one of the most sensitive areas of her body. Softly kissing this area from her shoulder to below her ear (while at the same time massaging it with your tongue will send tingles and pulses up and down her spine. Keep at it and she will be breathing heavily in a very short period of time.
The ear lobes
Sucking ear lobes isn't for everyone. Some girls get the tickles when you do it but others simply adore it. While you're there you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Close facial contact is what she likes so this is a good way to do it if you're fed up with kissing on the lips. Also massaging her ear lobes with your fingers from time to time can be very soothing.
The nipples
On a par with the neck for sensitivity, the female nipples become hard and sit up right when stimulated with your tongue. Don't forget to give both breasts even attention and also kiss down in between her breasts as you work your way between both of them. If she hasn't grabbed your head by this stage and held it into her bosom, something's badly wrong.
The belly button
Working your way down her body, the belly button is another area you should stimulate before full intercourse. Kissing this area with your lips and tongue will cause vibrations that will vibrate through her reproductive area and begin to stimulate her G spot.
The G Spot
Ah the G spot. This holy grail legend of the female anatomy can be tricky to find. So if the chance arises, ask her if she has already found her G spot and let her point you in the right direction.
As a general guide, most female G spots can be found on the roof of the vagina (that's the side closest to her stomach.). It's about the size and shape of a 2 pence coin and can be found about 4 inches in.
Extreme caution should be taken when stimulating this area with your tongue or fingers as a female can quite literally lose control of her limbs. Don't be surprised if you get kneed in the face or get elbowed as she moans in ecstasy. It should also be noted that not all females have a G spot, so don't be alarmed if you both can't find it. As you have seen there are plenty of other areas of the female body that can be stimulated in the art of love making in order to help her climax.
Doing a combination of all these things will leave her begging for more and you will be a better lover for it. Experimentation is the key to find out what works and what doesn't as everyone is not the same.
As you can see, a true female orgasm involves the stimulation of her whole body and not just simple penetration. Taking the time to show care and attention to her needs will put you so far above any other lovers, she may have had that you may find it tricky escaping from the bed. I know I have ;-)
I hope this article helps your love life get back on track and that you become better and more confident at making love and not just having sex. Above all else, if you want to become a better lover, ask your partner what they like and what they want you to do to them. Not only will you help them get their rocks off quicker, you'll also show that you are thinking about their needs and they in turn will think about yours. This will create a much better experience than if both parties are concentrating on what each can get out of the experience in a very selfish way.
Gentlemen! If you want to get your girl moaning for real instead of faking it, you're going to have to put a bit of work in. Firstly, a male can achieve orgasm within 2 - 3 minutes when stimulated by another partner. Where as a female can take up to 15 minutes to climax.
If you know for a fact that you can't keep going for that long by pure intercourse alone (and lets face it, if you're doing that, you're having sex, not making love) then you are going to have to stimulate her body with foreplay instead.
Now before you panic and freak out, all of this can be done with your tongue and hands. I guarantee you will become a better lover in the bedroom AND you really will give her orgasm after orgasm.
The top 5 female erogenous zones
The neck
Apart from being sexy and attractive, the female neck is perhaps one of the most sensitive areas of her body. Softly kissing this area from her shoulder to below her ear (while at the same time massaging it with your tongue will send tingles and pulses up and down her spine. Keep at it and she will be breathing heavily in a very short period of time.
The ear lobes
Sucking ear lobes isn't for everyone. Some girls get the tickles when you do it but others simply adore it. While you're there you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Close facial contact is what she likes so this is a good way to do it if you're fed up with kissing on the lips. Also massaging her ear lobes with your fingers from time to time can be very soothing.
The nipples
On a par with the neck for sensitivity, the female nipples become hard and sit up right when stimulated with your tongue. Don't forget to give both breasts even attention and also kiss down in between her breasts as you work your way between both of them. If she hasn't grabbed your head by this stage and held it into her bosom, something's badly wrong.
The belly button
Working your way down her body, the belly button is another area you should stimulate before full intercourse. Kissing this area with your lips and tongue will cause vibrations that will vibrate through her reproductive area and begin to stimulate her G spot.
The G Spot
Ah the G spot. This holy grail legend of the female anatomy can be tricky to find. So if the chance arises, ask her if she has already found her G spot and let her point you in the right direction.
As a general guide, most female G spots can be found on the roof of the vagina (that's the side closest to her stomach.). It's about the size and shape of a 2 pence coin and can be found about 4 inches in.
Extreme caution should be taken when stimulating this area with your tongue or fingers as a female can quite literally lose control of her limbs. Don't be surprised if you get kneed in the face or get elbowed as she moans in ecstasy. It should also be noted that not all females have a G spot, so don't be alarmed if you both can't find it. As you have seen there are plenty of other areas of the female body that can be stimulated in the art of love making in order to help her climax.
Doing a combination of all these things will leave her begging for more and you will be a better lover for it. Experimentation is the key to find out what works and what doesn't as everyone is not the same.
As you can see, a true female orgasm involves the stimulation of her whole body and not just simple penetration. Taking the time to show care and attention to her needs will put you so far above any other lovers, she may have had that you may find it tricky escaping from the bed. I know I have ;-)
I hope this article helps your love life get back on track and that you become better and more confident at making love and not just having sex. Above all else, if you want to become a better lover, ask your partner what they like and what they want you to do to them. Not only will you help them get their rocks off quicker, you'll also show that you are thinking about their needs and they in turn will think about yours. This will create a much better experience than if both parties are concentrating on what each can get out of the experience in a very selfish way.
What is a good age to marry
good age to marry! People vary a great deal in the ages at which they become mature. A few exceptional people might be ready for marriage in their teens.
Others are much too "young" at thirty. A good approach is to find out the average age when people actually do marry. In most developed countries, the age of most men today at the time of first marriage is about twenty-four. Their brides are slightly over twenty-one.
Contrary to popular opinion, people of today are not older, but younger at the time of marriage than they were fifty years ago. Having considered briefly the average ages at which people do marry, let us now consider the good age to marry.
Studies have indicated that teenage marriages are the least successful. They suggest that marriage in the early to middle twenties is desirable. These conclusions find substantial support from other sources. Child-bearing is easiest and safest in the early twenties, although modern science has made it increasingly safe for all ages.
A 50 years old and controversial report indicate that men reach their peak of sex desire well before twenty, so that the postponement of marriage places a strain upon those who observe the accepted moral standards.
Yet emotional maturity and economic competence take time to develop. And if marriage is to represent a complete fulfillment of the love relationship, emotionally as well as physically, the couple should wait for marriage until they are fully ready.
For most couples the best age for marriage seems to be from the early to the middle twenties. Remember, however, that you are not a statistic, or even two statistics. You are you. The question is not, "what is the good age to marry?" but "What is the best age for YOU to marry?".
The best way to decide is to look at what marriage success involves, and then try to see whether or not you have what it takes. The information found in this site may help you to decide.
Others are much too "young" at thirty. A good approach is to find out the average age when people actually do marry. In most developed countries, the age of most men today at the time of first marriage is about twenty-four. Their brides are slightly over twenty-one.
Contrary to popular opinion, people of today are not older, but younger at the time of marriage than they were fifty years ago. Having considered briefly the average ages at which people do marry, let us now consider the good age to marry.
Studies have indicated that teenage marriages are the least successful. They suggest that marriage in the early to middle twenties is desirable. These conclusions find substantial support from other sources. Child-bearing is easiest and safest in the early twenties, although modern science has made it increasingly safe for all ages.
A 50 years old and controversial report indicate that men reach their peak of sex desire well before twenty, so that the postponement of marriage places a strain upon those who observe the accepted moral standards.
Yet emotional maturity and economic competence take time to develop. And if marriage is to represent a complete fulfillment of the love relationship, emotionally as well as physically, the couple should wait for marriage until they are fully ready.
For most couples the best age for marriage seems to be from the early to the middle twenties. Remember, however, that you are not a statistic, or even two statistics. You are you. The question is not, "what is the good age to marry?" but "What is the best age for YOU to marry?".
The best way to decide is to look at what marriage success involves, and then try to see whether or not you have what it takes. The information found in this site may help you to decide.
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Penpal Party - http://www.penpalparty.com/ Search for a penpal or add your listing free. Section for teachers.
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Penpals All Around - http://www.angelfire.com/sd/favpp/index.html Find email and snail mail pals using the listings on this site. Categorized by gender and age.
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Thursday, July 12, 2007
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Dating Tips For Women
There is nothing like a first date to cause an anxiety attack even in the most confident of women. As most women were raised to seek male approval at any cost, we find ourselves worrying about the wrong things. Will he notice my dress is slightly out of style? Will he laugh at my jokes? Am I his type?
Although a first impression does tend to linger for a while in people's minds it is important not to go overboard and try to be someone that you think he might like - like his ex or a supermodel he admired in a magazine. First dates are also not a good time to experiment with hairstyle or the shape of your brows. The most important thing is to relax and be yourself.
Playing the dating game means being a good sport. Nobody wants to be around a nervous individual or an individual that is trying to hard to impress others. As Bart Simpson would say, "It smacks of effort, man."
If you decide you are going to have a good time, then you probably will. However, there are some steps you can take to put yourself at ease before the date as well as ensure that nobody, and especially you, gets hurt.
First of all, make sure the date will be something you will enjoy. If your date suggests going bowling and you wouldn't be caught dead in a pair of rented running shoes then suggest an alternative. Suggest that the two of you check out that new restaurant that just opened or a stroll through the museum. Scary movies are also good for first dates as they have a way of raising adrenaline levels. This causes him to associate excitement with you.
If the thought of engaging in conversation with a man that you barely know makes you nervous then suggest an activity that keeps you both occupied such as a sports event, horse-back riding, playing darts or taking a walk in the park. Try to choose something that is fun and exciting for both you. This will definitely take the pressure off you to entertain or amuse your partner with conversation.
However don't go overboard with this "making him associate you with excitement" idea. A first date is not a good time to suggest jumping out of an airplane together holding hands or trying the latest in vertigo-inducing equipment at the local amusement park. It is also not the time to venture out to explore any exotic new cuisines that could cause stomach distress.
While out on the date, make sure to take it easy and go with the flow. Anything can happen on a date including spilt wine on a white dress, bad service from a waiter, a flat tire, or even being chased down the street by robbers. Whatever happens, try to keep your sense of humor.
Perhaps one thing that does turn off most males
Perhaps one thing that does turn off most males is a woman who haggles or bargains too much or has a habit of sending her food back in a restaurant because it is not exactly right. This makes him think that you might be judging him in the same finicky manner.
Make sure you check your emotional baggage at the door. This is not the time to discuss your cheating ex-boyfriend, your alcoholic mother, or your psychotic boss. This man is supposed to be a potential lover, not a therapist.
One way to get a man's attention on a date is to pay a lot of attention to him. Rather than talking about yourself, ask him a lot of questions. Men love to be asked about their jobs. However don't turn into too much of an interrogator or they might feel that you are getting too personal. It is also not a good idea to ask puzzling questions such as "If you were a balloon, what color would you want to be?" The idea here is to make him feel comfortable, not as if he is going to pass or fail after taking your quiz.
Also try to stay in tune with current events. Chances are your date will want to make small talk and will feel embarrassed for you if you are not aware of that typhoon that just hit Thailand. Many men will talk about the news just to break the ice and to get an idea of your intelligence.
When it comes to paying a bill, don't whip out your wallet right away. Some men definitely prefer to pay for your dinner or movie. If he is making no effort to do this, don't be too exact about how you divide up the bill. Just pay half and be done with it, even if he did have six glasses more of wine than you did.
No matter how dismal the date, be a lady and try to stick it out to the end. Unless your date is drunk and displaying inappropriate behavior try to be a good sport and stay by his side until he drops you off at the door. As most of us live in small towns you don't want to get a reputation for having cold feet. He might tell his eligible bachelor friends that "you just abandoned him there in the restaurant."
To win at the dating game you also need to date as many people as possible. It is a big mistake to believe that just because you are on a date with someone that you are somehow "together." Accept as many dates as you can. This makes you look attractive and like you have "got a life" to males. Although it is sad, but true, males tend to like women that they must feel that they have to fight a little for to get her attention.
Dating a number of individuals also prevents you from seeing each person you are dating as the love of your life. Playing the odds takes the pressure off you to please one man and allows you to see if anyone is really interested in pleasing you.
However don't go overboard when it comes to dating many men. For example, many women would find dating a man every night to be exhausting as well as an exercise in futility
Although a first impression does tend to linger for a while in people's minds it is important not to go overboard and try to be someone that you think he might like - like his ex or a supermodel he admired in a magazine. First dates are also not a good time to experiment with hairstyle or the shape of your brows. The most important thing is to relax and be yourself.
Playing the dating game means being a good sport. Nobody wants to be around a nervous individual or an individual that is trying to hard to impress others. As Bart Simpson would say, "It smacks of effort, man."
If you decide you are going to have a good time, then you probably will. However, there are some steps you can take to put yourself at ease before the date as well as ensure that nobody, and especially you, gets hurt.
First of all, make sure the date will be something you will enjoy. If your date suggests going bowling and you wouldn't be caught dead in a pair of rented running shoes then suggest an alternative. Suggest that the two of you check out that new restaurant that just opened or a stroll through the museum. Scary movies are also good for first dates as they have a way of raising adrenaline levels. This causes him to associate excitement with you.
If the thought of engaging in conversation with a man that you barely know makes you nervous then suggest an activity that keeps you both occupied such as a sports event, horse-back riding, playing darts or taking a walk in the park. Try to choose something that is fun and exciting for both you. This will definitely take the pressure off you to entertain or amuse your partner with conversation.
However don't go overboard with this "making him associate you with excitement" idea. A first date is not a good time to suggest jumping out of an airplane together holding hands or trying the latest in vertigo-inducing equipment at the local amusement park. It is also not the time to venture out to explore any exotic new cuisines that could cause stomach distress.
While out on the date, make sure to take it easy and go with the flow. Anything can happen on a date including spilt wine on a white dress, bad service from a waiter, a flat tire, or even being chased down the street by robbers. Whatever happens, try to keep your sense of humor.
Perhaps one thing that does turn off most males
Perhaps one thing that does turn off most males is a woman who haggles or bargains too much or has a habit of sending her food back in a restaurant because it is not exactly right. This makes him think that you might be judging him in the same finicky manner.
Make sure you check your emotional baggage at the door. This is not the time to discuss your cheating ex-boyfriend, your alcoholic mother, or your psychotic boss. This man is supposed to be a potential lover, not a therapist.
One way to get a man's attention on a date is to pay a lot of attention to him. Rather than talking about yourself, ask him a lot of questions. Men love to be asked about their jobs. However don't turn into too much of an interrogator or they might feel that you are getting too personal. It is also not a good idea to ask puzzling questions such as "If you were a balloon, what color would you want to be?" The idea here is to make him feel comfortable, not as if he is going to pass or fail after taking your quiz.
Also try to stay in tune with current events. Chances are your date will want to make small talk and will feel embarrassed for you if you are not aware of that typhoon that just hit Thailand. Many men will talk about the news just to break the ice and to get an idea of your intelligence.
When it comes to paying a bill, don't whip out your wallet right away. Some men definitely prefer to pay for your dinner or movie. If he is making no effort to do this, don't be too exact about how you divide up the bill. Just pay half and be done with it, even if he did have six glasses more of wine than you did.
No matter how dismal the date, be a lady and try to stick it out to the end. Unless your date is drunk and displaying inappropriate behavior try to be a good sport and stay by his side until he drops you off at the door. As most of us live in small towns you don't want to get a reputation for having cold feet. He might tell his eligible bachelor friends that "you just abandoned him there in the restaurant."
To win at the dating game you also need to date as many people as possible. It is a big mistake to believe that just because you are on a date with someone that you are somehow "together." Accept as many dates as you can. This makes you look attractive and like you have "got a life" to males. Although it is sad, but true, males tend to like women that they must feel that they have to fight a little for to get her attention.
Dating a number of individuals also prevents you from seeing each person you are dating as the love of your life. Playing the odds takes the pressure off you to please one man and allows you to see if anyone is really interested in pleasing you.
However don't go overboard when it comes to dating many men. For example, many women would find dating a man every night to be exhausting as well as an exercise in futility
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